Author: Fair Start Movement

  • New York Times: Population Is About People and Shared Values, Not Economic Growth

    New York Times: Population Is About People and Shared Values, Not Economic Growth

    It’s downright jarring to see the New York Times report on the climate crisis and mass extinction with alarm but subtly treat low birthrates as similarly threatening to our future. Smaller families are the most effective way to mitigate the threat of the climate crisis and many other environmental and social dilemmas.

    Lower birthrates might be a threat to unsustainable growth-based economics, where we see babies as free money in the form of new consumers, cheap future labor, and compliant taxpayers. But lower birthrates are a boon to shared values like investing more in each child and creating a safe and healthy environment. And they are a boon at the key moment in human development where those values matter most of all. 

    What matters most is the people with whom we and our kids will share this planet as its ecology degrades. That is the most fundamental question of all.

    Take action: Contact the Times at nytnews@nytimes.com and urge them to deal with the values at stake and not to promote unsustainable growth.

  • Want a Better Future? Focus on Ensuring All Children Better Birth Conditions.

    Want a Better Future? Focus on Ensuring All Children Better Birth Conditions.

    Having Kids’ work on ensuring all children at least some minimum level of welfare at birth has just been published in one of the leading journals in the field of child and family law policy, the Child & Family Law Journal.

    Read the article, “The Human Right to a Fair Start in Life,” here.

    What can you do to help? Understand that there is no such thing as taking child welfare seriously without changing family planning policies to ensure minimum levels of welfare at birth for every child. Beginning that transition involves changing the fundamental fallacy that having kids is a matter of personal privacy, or that it’s “nobody else’s business,” by focusing on the worst cases of child abuse and neglect and the failing child welfare system that is impacting our shared future.

    Children should not be born into abusive or neglectful conditions or situations in which they will be raised by the state.

    TAKE ACTION: Contact us at info@fairstartmovement.org to become a Having Kids state leader in your state and help us create truly fundamental change.

  • This Man Is Threatening Our Right to Nature

    This Man Is Threatening Our Right to Nature

    Having Kids promotes our fundamental human right to nature and the sovereignty of democratic communities over economic pyramids driven by population growth, mass consumption and corporate greed.

    TC Energy CEO Russ Girling is a key part of the system threatening our right to nature. He is behind the violence against the Wet’suwet’en peoples of Canada as they defend their land against Girling’s and TC Energy’s attempt to build the Coastal GasLink pipeline across their ancestral lands.

    Given the impact of the project on our degrading climate, Girling and TC Energy are a manifest threat to our children’s future.

    1. Girling and TC Energy are responsible for violating the human right to nature and the sovereignty that derives from it.
    2. As human rights, the right to nature and sovereignty supersede national authority and any other rights the nation attempts to guarantee TC Energy and Girling.
    3. Girling can offset the harm he is causing by pulling back from the Wet’suwet’en lands and repaying the money he and TC Energy have taken. This reparation could include funding Fair Start family planning policies that will build resilience in future generations as they face degraded ecosystems.

    How Can We Stop TC Energy’s Threat to Nature?

    Take Action: We can target the top of the pyramid. We are urging supporters to find Girling, to peacefully and lawfully engage him about fulfilling what our human rights require, and to publicize your bravery. As we obtain information on his whereabouts, we will update this post.
    Please also contact the Hon. Mike Farnworth, the minister of public safety and solicitor general of British Columbia, regarding the Royal Canadian Mounted Police’s incursions and to make the points above. Additionally, you can sign this petition or engage him personally if you are in the area.

  • Having Kids in 2020:  Unifying Thoughtful, Caring People and Their Social Justice Movements

    Having Kids in 2020: Unifying Thoughtful, Caring People and Their Social Justice Movements

    2019 was a great year for Having Kids and for the transition from parent-focused family planning to forward-looking, inclusive, and child-centric family planning. We published peer-reviewed research to show just how effective better family planning is at solving the world’s greatest problems, worked in coalition to urge the United Nations to move toward changing its archaic and disastrous family planning policies, designed early economic modeling for Fair Start-guaranteed income wealth transfers, celebrated Meghan Markle and Prince Harry’s speaking out on better family planning, and solidified a campaign to accelerate getting male contraception on the market, among other advancements. 

    2020 will be even better. 

    “Rights” movements, including human, environmental, child, and animal rights movements, all have at least one thing in common: They are fundamentally, and effectively, promoted by family planning policies that revolve around objective values, the goal of creating just societies constituted of self-determining people, and the process of moving to cooperative planning, smaller families, and more equitable starts in life. These movements thrive on communities composed of empathetic and just people. These movements are obligated, by their fundamental and unavoidable commitments, to support child-focused family planning models that invest more time, love, and energy in future generations over family planning models that exploit those generations.

    These movements can unify around this most basic commonality and can target their opponents: pre-constitutional corporate, oligarchical, bureaucratic, and other hierarchical entities who promote subjectivist family planning policies that exploit the most vulnerable entities — the nonhuman world and future children — in order to feed off the fundamental chaos of a constantly growing population. These entities rule from atop pyramids of billions of relatively uneducated and unempathetic consumers, workers, and taxpayers living in vast inequity, consuming nature, and constantly struggling for socially secure positioning and influence they will never attain. These entities promote this social and ecological chaos because it ensures hierarchical systems, rather than free, self-determining communities.

    All rights movements can unify around child-centric family planning in order to target these entities at the top of the power pyramid in order to take their resources and decentralize their power in future generations as a means of most effectively promoting equity, democracy, and deep ecology. Rights movements may do so because human rights-based family planning is fundamentally constitutional, in the sense that we are before we do — and what makes us comes first. 

    Having kids, and the rights and obligations it entails, comes first. 

    This is a sense of fundamental and physical constitutionalism that goes well beyond traditional and outdated conceptions of constitutions as historical documents disconnected from the people they control. Instead, family planning-based constitutionalism — a real and tangible social contract between generations — truly empowers people right from the start. Human rights-based family planning is the fundamental norm. It constitutes societies and, as such, overrides all conflicting norms including big-government tax obligations and big-business property rights. We, both liberals and conservatives, have a right to the resources at the top of the pyramid, and we can use those resources to protect our shared values and our shared future as we liberate future generations. 

    It’s time to stand up. In 2020, Having Kids will help further define the battle lines needed to out the opponents of systems of rights — the lines necessary for truly fundamental reform. Please join us. 

  • Violent Kids: Addressing the Epidemic Means Starting At Birth

    Violent Kids: Addressing the Epidemic Means Starting At Birth

    The Sun Sentinel published an in-depth report on the disturbing epidemic of violent kids. The piece focuses specifically on the difficulty educators face in removing dangerous children from the classroom. Because of state laws and Federal protections, the safety of the other students and teachers is trumped by the rights of violent kids.

    Yes, red flag laws and gun reform are important. But they are not fail safe. They also don’t address the trauma being inflicted on children. That harm leads them to experience mental health distress and become violent kids. Effectively changing what’s happening requires addressing the underlying problem: the environment that is causing these kids to become so troubled. That environment starts with a family planning system that does not require parents to be ready before they have kids. We can reform that system. The place to start is with state legislation that – in the context of child abuse – would legally create that requirement.

    When people become parents before they are able to provide the necessary stability and resources for children to thrive, there are lifelong impacts on kids. The results is numerous behavioral effects such as aggression, violence, and criminality. Read more child abuse facts here.

    It’s time to move from a family planning culture that ignores what children need both emotionally and physically. 

    Let’s start at the source of the problem, poor family planning. Children have a human right to be born into a safe, healthy environment. Fair Start policies prevent children from becoming victims in criminally abusive, toxic situations. Read about Fair Start policies here. 

    TAKE ACTION: Call Florida Governor Ron DeSantis at (850) 717-9337. Or Tweet @GovRonDeSantis and urge him to promote Fair Start legislation. 

  • Young Activist Asks Greta Thunberg to Promote Sustainable Families

    Young Activist Asks Greta Thunberg to Promote Sustainable Families

    Seventh-grader and environmental activist Willow Phelps has previously spoken out on the need for sustainable families to ensure a sustainable future. She joined the NYC Climate March this past summer and is a plaintiff in a lawsuit asserting our constitutional right to nature. She has also urged the Surfrider Foundation to encourage families to protect the planet.

    Recently, Willow wrote to activist Greta Thunberg asking her to bring attention to the topic of the connection between sustainability and family planning. Better family planning is the most fundamental and effective way to protect people, the environment, and our shared future.

    Read the letter here.

    Willow is now taking over the Having Kids Instagram account. Follow her here.

  • Does Freedom Require Intergenerational Secession?

    Does Freedom Require Intergenerational Secession?

    Beneath many of the headlines today there lurks a tension few see: Communities of people fighting for autonomy from the massive nations, and multinational corporations, that work together to control them.

    Our default tendency is to see these struggles in three dimensions – as groups of people struggling against one another. That would not be accurate. All groups of people are in constant demographic change, with new members being born and old members dying. The struggle is in this sense four-dimensional, though its hard for our human brains to perceive this. This seemingly mundane fact could hold the key to opening a new front, or more accurately limitless fronts, in the struggle for human rights and democracy, and the creation of truly free communities where everyone has an effective voice.

    How so?

    Four-dimensional freedom

    The climate crisis had laid bare serious mistakes in the way the world has connected the concepts of family planning and human rights. The modeling was deeply flawed. The mistakes enabled nations and multinational corporations to rise to their hegemony by treating future generations as economic inputs, and exploiting the explosion of a world population who necessarily sees itself as confined to economies, rather than democracies where they play an effective role in their own governance.

    If we correct for those mistakes we arrive at a surprising, but apparently unavoidable, conclusion. There is no conception of human freedom – including equal opportunities in life, a voice in one’s democracy, and the liberty and safety of nature – without intergenerational secession. We have to free future generations from the hegemony of, and unlimited control by, the generations that are alive today.

    And as such, truly human rights-based family planning models give us something new: Shared values, conceptions and language for an emancipated future – a new normative vocabulary that cuts across fundamental political ideologies like liberalism and communitarianism, joining the two. Under this new modeling we can begin to “constitute” communities of free and equal people in ways we never have before.  These new models also have the quality of lexical priority, because we are before we do, and as such they override the property claims and tax obligations that prop up the massive nations and their multinational corporate allies. We have the necessarily antecedent and superior right, and obligation, to constitute free communities before turning to any of the rights and obligations that functioning economic systems require.

    In other words, seeing freedom as four-dimensional and reforming family planning systems and policies accordingly, give us new and deeply compelling reasons for people of all political ideologies to target top-of-the-pyramid national and multinational corporate leaders in to order to decentralized their power – in a new four-dimensional pathway – into future generations. These compelling reasons include finally making sense of social contract theory in a way that appeals to a broad swath of values and thereby justifies governance, and the incomparable impact doing so would have on improving child welfare, reducing inequity, building democracy, and mitigating the climate and other ecological crises.

    This new process and understanding of freedom redraws the battle lines as between pre-constitutional, subjectivist, and economically-minded systems and their supporters (or “precons,”), and democratically constituted systems comprised of free people.  The demand at the front becomes simple but forceful: A cooperatively arrived at fair start in life for every child defined by five objective and irrefutable values.

    Next steps

    The first step to opening the endless fronts of an intergenerational secession starts with a simple statement by the Secretary General of the United Nations acknowledging the mistakes the UN made, and moving towards better modeling. TAKE ACTION: Urge him to open the fronts.

  • COP25: Don’t Ignore the Greatest Factor in the Climate Crisis

    COP25: Don’t Ignore the Greatest Factor in the Climate Crisis

    Having Kids will be truly speaking truth to power – in the most fundamental way – at the COP25 UN Climate Conference in Madrid next month. It’s time to promote the implementation of a truly human rights-based family planning system. We need a real system of human rights that protects kids and restores nature, and limits the hegemony that people alive today have over future generations.

    Read our letter to the Executive Secretary of the Conference and share widely.

    Last year’s conference focused on industrial emissions. Now it’s time to stop ignoring the most fundamental and biggest factor in the climate crisis: Poor family planning policies.

    We will make clear: 
    1. The Conference must address new family planning policies as the most effective solution to the climate crisis – twenty times more effective than most alternatives.

    2. Human rights require that we put the interests of future children, and hence future generations, first, and requiring a fair start in life for every child is the best way to do that. The Conference must acknowledge the interconnection of the crises we all face, like the inequity in Chile that caused the shift in conference location and which will ensure climate apartheid.

    3. There are specific policies that the Conference can promote. Lets focus on funding research into, approval of, and robust marketing of the male pill, subsidizing delaying parenthood, and ensuring the UN reverses its current and disastrous family planning model.

    Take Action: Add your name to urge the UN and COP25 to recommend smaller families.

  • It’s Not About Population. It’s About an Intergenerational Revolution.

    It’s Not About Population. It’s About an Intergenerational Revolution.

    The media is abuzz these days about women not having enough kids. It’s an odd thing to hear, given that population will continue to explode by billions of people in the decades to come, exacerbating the population-driven climate crisis, and causing untold suffering

    Are we missing a more important conversation though?

    Let’s start with the premise that framing is crucial. 

    Whether we think about population, or start from a different concept, framing could change everything about how we perceive the subject. The debate surrounding “population” tends to focus on quantity, which is actually misleading. Shouldn’t we think of people in the world, and the act of having kids, as more qualitative? Shouldn’t we be talking about quality of life? The truth is that what we think of as population is actually at least four things: 

    1. The quantity of the people we create.
    2. Their qualities, like empathy, and other key traits that will determine how people socialize and that are largely a product of early childhood development. These are inextricable from things like the levels, or quality, of personal well-being and development they are ensured.
    3. Their positioning in life relative to other children (the opportunities they have in life, with some kids today born billionaires and others born slaves, etc.). This positioning includes the inevitable attenuation from one another that comes with population growth.
    4. Their relation to their ecologies, i.e. are generations degrading the systems on which they depend?

    These four things are inevitably intertwined in the act of having kids. That act is more complex than the traditional concept of population implies, and can capture.

    Moreover, population is not some exogenous policy area we can choose to work in, or ignore. The people on the planet today, and how they limit what’s possible, are largely the product of what was done or not done in past family planning systems. We just have to shift and temporalize our thinking, or overcome the cognitive dissonance of temporal myopia, that makes it hard for us humans to see this. If a policy choice involves people, it involves family planning. Family planning, and the failure to plan, is the foundation of everything social. People are the first building blocks of any policy, and that which creates people, develops their traits, and gives them agency most accounts – and in free societies should most account – for the quality of life on this planet.

    It’s time for a new, and more helpful, conversation. 

    Given that the population is always changing and is the product of our actions, it’s probably more accurate to use a verb, and to focus on the cause (having kids) before the effect (population growth). The concept of “constituting,” as in the reference to “We the People” in the United States’ and other constitutions, could be ideal.

    Remember, framing matters. Technically, we were not constituted as a nation; if we value each person equally, we have to believe that we constantly reconstituting as future children enter the word. Constituting captures, much better than population, the antecedent, normative, dynamic and endogenous nature of the thing, and proceeds from a perspective of needing to justify the social organization (or the social contract) around us, or the power others have over us. That’s the perspective from which free and equal people would orient.

    “Constituting,” as opposed to “population,” captures the fundamental human rights-based lens or perspective free people would have when thinking about the people with whom they share communities: How is the power others have over us justified? Are we constituting a community of free and equal people, or something else, like a hierarchical economy? What control do you really have over the rules under which you are forced to live? Aren’t you worth more than being one vote lost in a sea of millions of votes, for presidents and other antiquated figureheads with massive control over our lives? 

    Why does this change in framing matter? 

    For some, it lets them see past myths, like the myth that population, or the people with whom we share and will share the world, is something amorphous and out of our control. Or, the myth that some kids are born into fortunate conditions, with what they need to succeed in life, while others are simply not. That’s nonsense. Our birth conditions have nothing to do with fortune, God, or some invisible force at work. Inequity at birth is simply humans’ failure to ensure fair start family planning. Thinking about how we constitute, and beyond population, helps us see this. 

    What’s another myth? Often we limit our thinking, “inside the box,” to current nation-states. We assume they are the fundamental political entity, and all that is possible. In other words, a lot of population-driven thinking wrongly assumes we are stuck with the countries that exist today. This is exemplified by the media’s reaction to falling birth rates in China, and calls to strengthen China’s economy with larger families. China is perhaps the greatest threat in the world to human rights, democracy, and nature – why would any free person want to strengthen the country or its economy, rather than see it disintegrate into the various groups it colonized? Can’t we imagine better societies, and political entities, than the countries we have now? New frames let us see past myths. 

    And for others, moving past the concept of population, and towards constituting, goes past simple myth-breaking and will lead to effective ways to promote human freedom. 

    The U.S. Constitution was born of a revolution to ensure that people could constitute independent, or free and equal, people. But for many reasons, the Constitution was never applied intergenerationally. And human rights and democracy are in decline today. Instead of constituting communities of people where everyone has a voice over the rules under which they live, we have media pushing women to have kids in failing social systems, and in the face of ecological crisis, to further inflate the economy. Instead of seeing communities as a free and equal people in a town hall, the politicians, pundits and companies pushing women to have babies envision a world of crowded shopping malls. But how you would see people and want them to be in a democratic town hall, versus a shopping mall, is very different. 

    People who want to grow economies push women to have more kids, with less investment in each child, and no minimum level of welfare, or equity, for each child born. In these schemes people are just economic inputs, rather than citizens who must be sufficiently developed to co-rule their democracies. In these constant-growth schemes, it’s OK to push more and more children through failing educational, welfare, healthcare and other systems. In this worldview it’s perfectly acceptable – if not desirable –  that the average American adult reads at the level of an eighth-grader. The idea of endless growth proceeds from state-based, and top-down, views of people as consumers and labor, rather than a bottom-up view of people as citizens with control over the world around them. Constant-growth systems push in the opposite direction from inclusive family planning systems that would create, or constitute, true democracies of capable and self-determining people. 

    The constant-growth worldview is antithetical to the personal autonomy that would be promoted and protected by a human right to nature, guaranteed minimum levels of well-being for children, and limitations on the right of abusive parents to have unlimited numbers of children who will be seized and spend much of their lives in state custody. Make no mistake – the people pushing poor family planning because they see babies as money are hurting people, and at the most fundamental level. They help ensure that children are born into horrible conditions, a culture where women are expected to have children, the exacerbation of the climate and other ecological crises, and the dominance of massive economic systems where the average citizen has no effective role in making the rules under which they are forced to live.

    We can reverse the exploitation of future generations, and nature, by using Fair Start family planning to take resources from the entities at the top – both public and private – who have benefited from growth at cost to kids and our communities, and instead investing those resources in ways that give kids a fair start in life. And because constituting comes first, and involves the very first rights and obligations that lead us to become free and equal, the process overrides other rights and obligations – like property claims – that interfere. We are before we do, and the process of constituting – and thereby legitimating our societies – overrides everything.

    It’s time to truly constitute, from the roots up.

    Let’s move past the concept of population and towards the action of constituting free and equal societies. We cannot be free until we account for and include the people with whom we do and will share this world, the way we would in a democratic town hall, rather than ignoring them the way we would – and those entities in control would want us to – in a shopping mall. 

    Where do we go from here?

    It’s time for another American revolution, but this time, a bottom-up intergenerational one that – simply by demanding more for each child – actually ensures the constitution of capable people democracies require. The social contract only works if it is made intergenerational, and if we constitute as such. Doing so will free us from ourselves and from the hegemony we hold over each other.

    The revolution begins with parents demanding the resources they need, and deserve, from those who are destroying our future in order to give all kids a fair start in life.  Parents have a right to those resources, in exchange for responsible and cooperative planning, and it’s time we help parents take them. 

    TAKE ACTION: 

    1. Speak out for the building of true human rights-based democracies by fighting for every child’s right to a fair start in life, as well as your fundamental right to nature, at the same time. These are the ethical borders of free communities. We cannot be free until these two rights are established, from the United Nations, and down through every member state.

    2. Then lets turn our attention to the United States, and urge Elizabeth Warren, at 202-224-4543, 1) to use a child-centric and inclusive family planning model, 2) to seek bi-partisan support from Republicans who – like Democrats – should support family planning systems that ensure future citizens rather than economic inputs, and 3) to link her extensive child-care proposals to ecologically and socially regenerative future child entitlements. 

    3. And finally lets urge Lee Raymond, https://fairstartmovement.org/he-helped-create-the-climate-crisis-tell-him-to-make-it-right-for-kids/, to lead by example and voluntarily relinquish the extensive resources he and his family have taken by harming future generations, so that they may be used for Fair Start family planning. Those most capable, and responsible, must pay. 

    Constituting free and equal communities is the first and overriding human right. We are before we do. Let’s start at the source.