Category: Children’s Rights

  • Having Kids Presenting at Harvard: From Restoring Nature to Biden’s Child Care/Tax Plan

    Having Kids Presenting at Harvard: From Restoring Nature to Biden’s Child Care/Tax Plan

    Update: It was a great event! Check out the video here.

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    Cassie King is an outspoken young advocate for Fair Start family planning reforms. She recently called Vox‘s Matthew Yglesias out for pushing women to have more kids in the middle of the climate crisis.

    Tomorrow she will speak at Harvard Law School along with several others, on your and your kids’ human right to nature, and what it means for family planning policy.

    She is joined by Jessica Blome, one of the leading environmental lawyers in the country, who is also a mom. Here is her video:

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GCxuzYElDxE

    Why Fair Start family planning reforms?

    They are the most effective change we can make:

    Infographic showing that one child can produce 20 times more greenhouse gas than a person can save by driving a high-mileage car, recycling, or using energy-efficient appliances and light bulbs.

    Want to take action to support this effort, and ensure all children a Fair Start in life? Right now the Senate is debating legislation that seeks to fund child care, and alleviate poverty.

    But it:

    • Does nothing to seriously address the 1/10th wealth gap between black and white families in the U.S.
    • Does nothing to promote smaller and more sustainable families, which is a move with 20x more impact on the climate crisis than many alternatives.
    • Does nothing to end child abuse – instead, it will exacerbate it with a one-size-fits-all approach to family planning incentives.

    Take action: Urge your senator to help Having Kids amend the legislation to promote socially and ecologically fair start family planning, and add your name to our campaign.

  • Want Democracy for Your Kids? Do this.

    Want Democracy for Your Kids? Do this.

    When supporters of President Trump stormed the Capitol Building in January, business leaders, and prominent members of both political parties, condemned the act as a direct assault on democracy. The deadly attack was wrong for many reasons, but not because the Capitol represents a functional democracy.

    It’s hard to understand why anyone believes Congress – a handful of people – could democratically represent the diverse and changing interests of the hundreds of millions of people that live in the United States. If democracy is characterized by self-rule or the decentralization of power, what Congress purports to do instead is run a large republic where powerful interests disproportionately control outcomes, rather than engage in the true democracy simply characterized by an extremely decentralized system of local control where each person’s voice matters and is heard.

    We react strongly to the spectacle of what happened at the Capitol in part because it is sensational. Decades of corporate lobbyists invading the Capitol and slowly degrading the way it represents each person equally – and especially those most vulnerable – is less sensational. It’s not better – in many ways it’s worse and more impactful – but our brains don’t process it the same way. (In the linked TED talk Peter Singer focuses on our welfare and our cognitive limits, but the same lesson could be applied to self-determination and democracy).

    While contrasts have been drawn between the police response to the attack versus the response to the George Floyd riots, we can also look to the disproportionate response police had to the Occupy movement, especially in Wall Street’s back yard. We may not be surprised then when the captains of corporate America swiftly condemned the attack on the Capitol. Violence reminds us that there is a form of power other than money.

    If we really wish to ensure justice and to prevent further bloodshed, perhaps we should focus on making each voice heard and matter – whether it is the sort dying to end the constant killings of deeply disenfranchised black men by police, or the sort of voice intent on protesting the federal governance of our massive and deeply unequal population as undemocratic. If we don’t, these voices will raise their level of conflict, and violence.

    Infographic compares two groups: one large, gray crowd labeled People Without Real Say by the government, and one small, colorful group labeled Smaller & Better Democracies. Text suggests smaller families improve democracy.

    How could we possibly increase each person’s role in governance? Traditionally our moderately federalized system pushes population growth as a means of expanding national power, then based on constitutional rules, it counts up everyone and apportions their representatives. Instead of exploiting future generations as a means of growth, what if we changed the way we have and raise kids to equitably invest more in them and in ways designed to give each a voice in hyper-decentralized future governance? Instead of assuming that the written Constitution magically ensures our representation, we could physically decentralize both private and public concentrations of power by taking resources and investing them in a smaller future population developed for self-rule. While that process must prioritize eliminating racial inequity, it is inherently nonpartisan.

    In this way, we could begin to constitute democracies out of people, more than out of words, and build communities around our role in planning them, more than around racial or class identities. We could incentivize early fostering and adoption of children in need using the funds – like child tax credits – that currently incentivize having larger families. We could also do it by redistributing wealth from the top of the economic pyramid through enhanced “baby bond” legislation meant to ensure birth equity and tie future children’s needs to better family planning. Giving a voice  – in this way – can mean giving what both margins, left and right, want respectively, albeit over the span of a few generations: Greater equity for the former, and greater autonomy for the latter.

    The best part? If developing future generations to engage in equal self-rule is something that logically precedes the political processes we are accustomed to, we don’t need the government to begin the decentralization of private and public power. We can instead join as liberals and conservatives to target the power of both big business and big government, which in divided political camps we respectively object to, based on the simple truths that every child deserves to get a fair start – both ecologically and socially – in life, and that every child deserves to eventually matter in the processes that govern their day to day lives.

    They have that first human right, and as their protectors, we may ensure it for them by all means effective.

    Take action: Urge you representatives in Congress to support the United America campaign.

  • Nudging Cal Flyn, a Brilliant Mind, on Family Planning Reform

    Cal Flyn is wise to call attention to the issues of population growth and family planning is her recent article in the Guardian.

    What matters more than the people with whom we and our kids share the world, and will in the future?

    Cal however could be making a simple, but crucial, error: She might be assuming that replacement is the baseline for determining family planning policies and ideal fertility rates. Given that current and anticipated population levels are unsustainable – something the climate crisis reminds us of every day – replacement is not ideal.

    Instead, there is an optimal world population range – probably well below the ecocidal levels we see today. How do we know what is optimal? Think of what you value: Nature, democracy, fairness, and love. Those values create a world very different from the future we get from trying to maximize gross domestic product. These values create the world thoughtful and caring parents want for their children.

    Line graph showing global population (in billions) and CO2 (relative) from 1800 to 2050. Both lines rise slowly at first, then sharply increase around 1950, with population slightly above CO2 in recent decades.

    Moving towards it is the fundamental policy focus for sustainable development. Moving quickly will prove ten to twenty times more effective at eliminating poverty, inequity, and ecological crises, as well as restoring democracy, than downstream and after-the-fact alternatives. Optimal, not unsustainable replacement, is our collective endeavor.

    As part of this process, the slow return of nature is the long-expected consequence of decades of unified international efforts to avert the disasters that flow from overpopulation. We should welcome the change as a symbol of success. It is part of saving our own species.

    What’s an easy way to actually make change? Mixing fertility delay incentives in with child tax credits, and making all of it steeply progressive to ensure all kids a Fair Start in life.

    TAKE ACTION: BY NOT ENSURING ALL KIDS AN ECO-SOCIAL FAIR START IN LIFE THE UNITED NATIONS SECRETARY GENERAL @ANTONIOGUTTERES IS IGNORING HUMAN RIGHTS. URGE HIM TO CHANGE COURSE.

  • Guest Opinion: Practical Solutions to Common Concerns of Parents Working From Home

    Guest Opinion: Practical Solutions to Common Concerns of Parents Working From Home

    Guest author: Emily Graham, MightyMoms.net

    Emily is mother to two daughters, cares about their future, and supports the Having Kids approach. Neither she nor Having Kids received any compensation for this piece.

    Having a baby or toddler as a coworker may sound pretty cute. If you’re a parent who is currently trying to perform this juggling act, though, you know just how stressful things can get. You may have even found yourself in situations where you felt overwhelmed, including the examples below. This is why we are giving you some practical tips for overcoming them, courtesy of Having Kids. 

    “My home is a mess!”

    Chaos and toddlers seem to go hand-in-hand. The first thing you should do to tame the clutter and mess is to cut yourself some slack. If you’re caring for a younger child while working from home, you’re basically working overtime at two full-time jobs. 

    Now, if things have gotten out of control, you can also use some free tips to get your home organized, fast. When you have a few minutes, go around one room and pick up clutter. Also, try to spend a little time cleaning each day so your house stays fresh and doesn’t overwhelm you. Last but not least, open a window for some fresh air. Then, take a deep breath and relax after all of that hard work.

    “I’m working in pajamas” 

    Look we get it — wearing your pajamas is convenient and seemingly smart when you’re chasing after a toddler in-between work and chores. You may feel comfortable working in the same clothes you wore to bed, but as it turns out, spending a few minutes on getting yourself ready for the day will actually help you be more productive. Essentially, you’re letting your brain know it’s time for work. 

    That isn’t to say that you should wear a three-piece suit and fancy heels to work from home. How would you ever keep up with a constantly exploring child in that getup? Instead, put together a few casual looks that can take you from Zoom meetings to zooming after kids. Need to shop for new clothes? Look for promo codes and coupons from stores like Belk to find functional and fashionable outfits for a lot less. 

    “I’m constantly interrupted!”

    There are only two things that will help in this emergency situation: realistic expectations and boundaries. We’ll get to boundaries in just a moment, but first, let’s go over some ways you can create better schedules and routines for your family. You need to plan your work week ahead of time and talk your schedule over with your kids, if possible. If you have a partner or spouse, come up with expectations for how you will split parenting duties. 

    Next, enforce your schedule and routine with boundaries. That may look like working during naptime with toddlers and babies since you can’t very well explain boundaries to them. It could also include setting up your very own office space to create some physical separation. 

    “Sleep is non-existent for me.”

    Not getting enough sleep is a common concern for parents of younger children. But you really do need quality sleep to thrive and avoid burnout. In fact, one trick you can use is to focus on quality rather than quantity. Johns Hopkins recommends trying to rest in cycles of two to four hours, which will hopefully coincide with your kids’ naptimes. Even if you can’t sleep, resting helps! 

    Another important tip for working parents is shutting off electronics before you try to fall asleep. This goes for your work phone and laptop, too, since the light from screens can make it more difficult for your eyes and brain to relax. If you have a habit of checking emails or social media while in bed, stopping now will help you get the quality sleep you need. 

    Working at home with a baby or young child in the mix shouldn’t make you feel burned out or overwhelmed. Having a plan and sticking to consistent routines can help you maximize your productivity. It’s also extremely important that you set boundaries to maintain some order. 

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  • South Korea: Change The Population Policy Landscape for the World

    South Korea: Change The Population Policy Landscape for the World

    South Korea is in the midst of making demographic history, with the country’s population itself declining. While other countries have seen the same process unfold, South Korea is unique in that the fall is part of one of the best family planning policy reforms the world has seen. The positive impact on the climate crisis, and on improving each citizen’s role in the democratic process, is astounding. South Korea is showing that nations can break the suicidal collective action problem of a permanent birth and population growth race, to instead help move the world towards an optimal and sustainable world population level.

    The State Pushing Women to Have Kids

    Forces at the top of the population exploitation pyramid Nobel Laureate Stephen Chu once pointed out are fighting back, sounding alarms about South Korea heralding the end of the world. They do not care about the impact falling populations have on values like welfare, nature, and equity. They care that the pyramid – atop which they live – is changing and the free money of unsustainable population growth might be disappearing. These forces said the same about falling population in Japan years ago and impacts on quality of life – and were wrong.

    Unfortunately, South Korea is caving to forces at the top of the wealth and population pyramid, and paying and pushing women to have more kids. In this way, South Korea is a battle ground for whether we stick to unsustainable, nationalistic and pre-constitutional replacement fertility models, or transition to Fair Start family planning systems that use nature as a baseline, and are truly compliant with human rights.

    We should choose the latter, and rather than prop up the wealthy, we should constitute new democracies where each person matters.

    What can we do in this fight for human rights and the future?

    It’s time to change the discourse. This is not about numbers. This is about people, and the first human right – the right to a fair start in life. It’s time to find the wealthy entities and their mouthpieces in the media pushing unsustainable growth, the people driving the exploitation rather than investment in future generations.

    An infographic titled The Fair Start Model explains how parents, communities, and small sustainable families work together to ensure a fair start and high quality of life for all kids.

    It’s time to take the resources they took, the wealth, and instead invest it in future generations. We have the right to take what is necessary for the Fair Start right by all means effective because it comes before – and overrides – property rights. We are before we do. The wealthy collected their power in violation of that right; they never paid the costs they should have. It’s time for them to pay now.

    Step one in this transition?

    The United Nations and Secretary General Antonio Guterres are obligated by the international bill of human rights to support Fair Start, and our just demands, prior to our engaging targets at the top of the wealth pyramid. They are obligated to speak truth with us to the power at the top, and support the just actions to come.

    Urge the United Nations to recognize every child’s right to a Fair Start in life. Tell them to choose justice over greed and inequity.

  • Time for Antiracism in Biden’s Family Plan? It’s Called the Unite America Plan.

    Time for Antiracism in Biden’s Family Plan? It’s Called the Unite America Plan.

    We Should Level the Playing Field for All Kids. Full Stop.

    President Joe Biden has put forth a massive child care and tax proposal to keep child care centers open, help low-income families with child care, and offer tax relief on the cost of having kids.

    There is just one problem: It’s not really meant to eliminate the massive wealth gap between minority and white families in the United States. Because of slavery and historical injustice, black families have one tenth the wealth of white families. White families also possess more than 4 times the income of Hispanic/Latino families. The impacts are especially hard on kids, rippling forward into future generations in never ending cycles that make a mockery of any legitimate form of social contract. It’s time to get real.

    How could Biden’s plan help end the cycle?

    1) Cut all benefits to wealthy families who don’t need the funding. 

    2) Use those savings as cash incentives to power up family planning and early childhood investment systems in the United States to 

    a) target child abuse by amending the federal child abuse law, 

    b) incentivize delaying having kids until parents are really ready, and 

    c) promote more sustainable and equitable families for all regardless of income, as well as fostering and adoption – changes that have twenty times the impact on climate emissions, relative to short term fixes. Those changes – made as part of recognizing our sacred constitutional right to nature –  would create massive long-run savings and catalyze sustainable development. We could start to give all kids a Fair Start in life.

    d) Back programs like Smart Beginnings up in time to focus on family planning, and based upon redistribution of wealth in ways that give all kids a Fair Start in life.

    Cory Booker has already proposed a vehicle called baby bonds through which – if made progressively scaled and seriously bumped up – the modernizing changes could be accomplished.

    Opponents to these changes will want to use President Biden’s plan to reinforce inequality and incentivize unsustainable population growth, using babies to grow the economy. Names like Ivanka Trump, Marco Rubio, Mitt Romney, and growth-minded people at Vox like Matthew Yglesias want to use child care, and especially child tax credits, as incentives for women to have kids to reverse falling birth rates. That’s short-sighted, and ignores every child’s right to a socially and ecologically #fairstart in life. It’s certainly not antiracist. It divides us.

    Changing the way we plan for and invest in families – doing it in a socially and ecologically sustainable way – is thinking ahead and creating long-run change. The impacts would be ten to twenty times other things we could do to address the climate, inequity, and decline of democracy crises. Better family planning also has a massive impact on pandemics, improving our response and reducing risks. It’s time to raise the baseline for conditions at birth to set kids up for success for life and build a better future by recognizing the obligations of those at the top. That’s how we come together – or deliberately include future generations in democratic communities – and truly unite America around a common core. We rebuild Main Street by creating a middle class through future generations, at cost to Wall Street and through the elimination of poor and unsustainable family planning.

    In this way we can proceed from fundamental values, and achieve the personal autonomy the political right values, by applying the equity the political left values – but specifically prioritizing children. We can take power away from big business and big government, the entities the left and right respectively oppose, and invest it in future generations. Learn more here.

    That’s truly uniting, and being antiracist, at the same time.

    The Having Kids Unite America campaign is not simply a Green New Deal – it’s a Real Deal, or a new and intergenerational social contract to ensure a #fairstart in life for all kids.

    TAKE ACTION: Add your name to urge President Biden to improve the child care rescue package and share the campaign with the hashtag #UniteAmericaforkids.

  • Share your story. Make an impact. Join the Fair Start movement.

    Share your story. Make an impact. Join the Fair Start movement.

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    The biggest impact of all? Changing the way we plan families.
    Make a difference today by sharing your “why” for taking part in the Fair Start movement, and we might use your video in our campaigns:

    • Record a 10- to 30-second video clip of you sharing why we need to rethink family planning policy to finally end child abuse and advocate for smaller families to protect our planet and wildlife.• Share your video on social media by using the hashtag #FairStartStories
  • In a Country Divided, Can Our Children Unite Us? Take Action.

    In a Country Divided, Can Our Children Unite Us? Take Action.

    Whatever rhetoric comes from President-elect Joe Biden, the country remains more divided because of the election, with studies showing a growing divide and distrust between red and blue communities and increasing openness to violence on both sides. The impact of the second wave of Covid-19 on businesses, the continued killing of black men and women by police, and a former president soon unhindered by office, will not help.

    Biden is pursuing a business-as-usual approach to funding childcare that makes the situation worse long-term. This policy does not address the root of the problem: family planning. It does not ensure a minimum threshold under which children should not be born, does not address the way unsustainable family size drives the climate and other crises, and does not create inclusive communities.

    Why are your tax dollars being paid out without these safeguards?

    It’s a cliché to say that children, who are the future, can unite us. But novel policies that could change the way we plan for, have, and raise kids make the possibility of coming together real and meaningful beyond empty clichés. Those policies begin by our realizing that being truly inclusive starts by deliberately including children in communities through more cooperative family planning systems that eliminate marginalization, and ​focus as a priority on giving every child a fair start in life​.

    Those policies would also have to promote smaller families that create more democratic communities where everyone’s voice matters. This would be a stark reversal of our ​current family tax policies that promote quantity over quality, ignore fair starts in life, and promote the antithesis of inclusivity​.

    The best part? Such #fairstart policies should appeal to both liberals and conservatives, because they promote the traditionally liberal value of equity while also promoting the traditionally conservative value of autonomy by investing more in kids in ways that make them self-sufficient and capable citizens. Together, these values create a vision of free and equal people engaged in the self-rule the founders of the nation envisioned, or the ideal of town halls, rather than a vision of economic growth that through overcrowding and lack of a common core excludes people from public institutions.

    Moreover, new family planning policies like these would have a massive impact on the climate crisis that threatens all of us, with ​an exponentially greater impact​ than many downstream alternatives. ​Family planning reform is the only truly fundamental type of reform, and given the climate crisis, fundamental reform is what we need.

    Children can unite us, but to make that statement mean something, we have to start at the beginning, with the way we plan families. We have to start with a vision of a future of smaller, sustainable, and truly democratic communities where we invest more in kids and where all have a meaningful voice.

    Take Action: Urge Kamala Harris to use her position to educate Biden and to promote child-centric Fair Start family planning reforms. Copy and paste this message in your communications with her.

  • You and Your Kids Have a Right To Nature. Take Action.

    You and Your Kids Have a Right To Nature. Take Action.

    While many nations’ constitutions are clear in protecting the property rights of the wealthy, they are less clear in protecting the nature we and future generations need to thrive. That’s a mistake.

    Given that humans need nature to survive, we have a right to nature’s restoration and protection. A lawsuit in the United States is making that case, and will be heard in 2021.

    A recent Ecowatch piece covered the appeal, and why no political system that fails to protect a right to nature is legitimate.

    Here is an excerpt:

    “The world made [a] baseline mistake in developing environmental policy decades ago, choosing to treat nature as a resource for humans. The baseline was too low and allowed policies that fell short; indeed, it is one of the reasons our planet continues to superheat. We are making that same mistake now with regard to COVID-19, by financially stimulating factory farming and other forms of ecocide that degrade the buffer (or social distancing) between people that our pre-Anthropocene environment offered. Degrading that “natural buffer” exacerbates the risk of pandemics and determines how we can react to them. As the New Republic reported, the next pandemic could be hiding in the Arctic permafrost.

    Solving the baseline problem will allow us to trace these calamities — like the unfolding death of the Great Barrier Reef — and help us back to an ultimate source, and, perhaps, to a solution. We can no longer use a baseline for environmental policy that treats nature or the nonhuman world as a human resource. This is the baseline most environmentalists use, and the one that created the Anthropocene era in which we find the world today. A much higher baseline would view nature as something that ought to be a nonhuman habitat or the homes of sentient species who have a right to survive and thrive. This would be a restorative baseline, and the one more consistent with animal liberation. Such a baseline would be most protective against things like climate change and the pandemics it drives. A policy based on this baseline would revolve around ensuring our children have the only environment proven — over millennia‚ that allows humans and all species to thrive. It would seek to eliminate the way the absence of nature in our lives is degrading our psyches.”

    Take action: Urge Congress to get ahead of courts and recognize our fundamental right to nature.

    A map of the U.S. with text stating it would take four Earths to provide enough resources if everyone lived like Americans, shown with four Earth icons below the map.