Category: Responsible Parenting & Smaller Families

  • Voices Are Speaking Out Against Irresponsible Family Planning. Will you?

    Voices Are Speaking Out Against Irresponsible Family Planning. Will you?

    Senator Mike Lee made headlines recently by pushing women to randomly have more kids. It’s the worst way to exacerbate the intricately related social and ecological threats facing our nation.  People are speaking out against him. One brilliant voice was featured by the Salt Lake Tribune this week.

    Read the full letter here. 

    Why is it important to speak out against irresponsible family planning? Other peoples’ family planning decisions will determine our future. Those decisions will define the quality of our kids’ lives, and our own. With whom do you want your kids to share this world? What do you want the future to look like? It’s time for a family planning policies that encourage people to wait until they are ready to be good parents, and to invest more in each child.

    Take Action:: Engage Mike Lee on these issues, in writing or in person, and we’ll publicize your efforts. Take the most effective action you can to protect the future. Promote better family planning policies now.

     

     

  • For Thoughtful Conservatives: Question Tucker Carlson on Family Planning

    For Thoughtful Conservatives: Question Tucker Carlson on Family Planning

    Tucker Carlson has been on a rampage, calling Alexandra Ocasio Cortez a “moron” for raising the issue of family planning as a response to climate change. That tirade raises serious questions about Tucker’s values, questions he should answer:

    1. Is he really denying that family planning, which has been shown to have the greatest impact in mitigating the threat of climate change, is off topic? Should we ignore effective solutions, even when the most credible sources view climate change as threat to national security?
    2. Is he suggesting that we shouldn’t consider the wellbeing of future generations when coming up with family planning policies, and hold people to certain standards and responsibilities when becoming parents? Should others have to pay for irresponsible family planning and parenting?
    3. How do we ensure functional democracies without ensuring better family planning, and the sort of responsible parenting that creates responsible citizens? Or does how we are raised, and who we become, not matter?

    Urge Tucker @TuckerCarlson to leave the insults aside and defend American values. Urge him to answer these simple questions.

  • Tabloid Baby Obsession: Harming the Future for Kids?

    Tabloid Baby Obsession: Harming the Future for Kids?

    Our kids’ future will be defined by the people with whom they will share the world, the people being born and raised every day. Will our kids will live in a crowded world filled with billions of people who did not get what they needed growing up; a world of massive inequality and pollution? Or will they live in a safe, healthy, sustainable world, with equity and democracies where their voice matters? The world could go either way.

    What environmentalists are doing to reduce consumption, child welfare activists are doing to protect kids alive today, and human rights activists are doing to universalize rights are all laudable. But what really matters – what has the greatest impact – is people, and how we make and shape them.

    Studies have shown the media have a crucial influence over the way we will go. Recent eye-grabbing headlines from People magazine are not helping: “’Unprepared’ Kim Kardashian and Kanye West ‘Are Both Very Excited’ About Baby No. 4.” Really? Promoting large families as climate change and inequality worsen is a bad idea. Downplaying the idea of preparation makes it even worse. Ignoring the ways this uber-wealthy couple differ from most families that might follow their lead, makes the article simply irresponsible. Other news outlets are doing a better job of promoting a better future, showing more sustainable families sharing resources to invest more in every child.

    Urge People Magazine to consider the impact it is having in limiting our kids future and driving an unjust future when reporting on celebs, and their family choices.

    Tweet People’s Executive Editor Kat Coyne @KatePeople and urge her to consider the Fair Start family planning model as a normative baseline when reporting on celebrity families.

  • The Green New Deal: Is It Missing the Most Effective Part?

    The Green New Deal: Is It Missing the Most Effective Part?

    “Those who do not learn history are doomed to repeat it.” – George Santayana.

    What climate change now threatens – the extreme and deadly weather, ocean acidification, wildfires, species extinctions, crop losses and more – could have been prevented. In the middle of the twentieth century, when our species was developing responses to the emerging environmental threats of that century, we may not have known as much as we do now about carbon dioxide and other anthropogenic greenhouse gasses. But we did know about their fundamental cause, which is the same underlying cause of all anthropogenic effects: Unsustainable family planning policies, and the near vertical population growth they cause. We knew about the multiplier. Better family planning policies were then, and are today, the most effective solution – perhaps even twenty times more so than other solutions. Family planning is effective because it starts at the source. 

    At that time, the United Nations, environmentalists and most governments assumed however, given falling fertility rates, that the problem would solve itself if the world just increased access to contraception and reproductive health services. They were wrong. They did not account for the degradation of our atmosphere and other crises accurately, and we now find ourselves scrambling, having failed to meet even the Paris Accord’s goals. And as world population skyrockets from its current 7.7 billion today to over 11 billion in 2100, and climate change accelerates, the questions are obvious: Will we continue to make the same mistake we did in the past? Could better family planning be a fifth column – the most effective one, of the Green New Deal? Why is less than effective even an option?

    Alexandria Ocasio-Cortez knows this is an unavoidable issue, and recently said as much, before she was jumped on by her opponents for breaking the taboo against ever talking about the need for a new way to think about family planning. How do we get around that taboo? Is there a solution? Yes, but it will take altering our fundamental concept of what it means to plan families, and in a way that simultaneously accounts for all of the values at stake. Here is the first step down that road.  

    Focus on Shared Values

    Most reasonable people would agree that all children deserve, at birth, a minimum level of things like food, shelter, healthcare, and other vital resources for the critical stage of the first to third years of life. Most would also agree that all kids deserve those things – a fair start in life – regardless of their parents income, over which the children have no control. So where do the disagreements arise? Why don’t we assure that every child’s needs are met, consistent with say, the Children’s Rights Convention? Our most fundamental concept of family planning treats it as a matter of personal privacy, focusing our attention on the parents, and fulfilling their desires. That concept isolates the parents and creates a barrier between the creation of children and the things they need, and the guaranteed provision of resources for those children, by the community if necessary.

    That barrier prevents us from aligning demand with supply. It also means we have policies that are designed to inflate our economy with a new supply of consumers, future workers, taxpayers, etc. Those policies actually push new children into failing child welfare, educational, and nutritional/healthcare assistance programs – programs that we are desperately trying to fix. We actually spend money trying to save kids from the systems into which our family planning systems pushed them.

    But what if we could get better alignment between need and resource, and change from a reactive to proactive approach? What if we changed the focus of family planning from parents, and trained it instead upon future children, geared around the standard of their right to a fair start in life? What if our policies encouraged parents delaying having their first child in order to prepare as best they could? What would that do to the future of our world, both socially and environmentally?

    We know how to fundamentally reorient our family planning systems, from federal child tax credits, to funding for things like family planning services and the prevention of child abuse, to state child welfare programs, to that standard. Those systems could shift current and costly incentives, like child tax credits for the wealthy that promote larger families in general, to instead incentivize smaller families, who will invest more in each child, through childbirth delay incentives, with progressive and substantial cooperative investment from the community. Combined with these upstream approaches, we could also revolutionize access. We could fully fund research for the male long-acting contraception that is only a short distance over the horizon, like the male pill. Cultural icons could help promote the process of changing the way we plan families – simply by leading as examples.

    Changing our fundamental concept of family planning, from one focused on parents to one focused on future children and the most basic values and needs we all share, could be the first step in not repeating history. It could help us not make the same mistake of ignoring the underlying driver of so many social and ecological crises. We should not again ignore the source and multiplier of all our anthropogenic impacts on this planet. Better family planning could be the Fifth Column and most important part of the Green New Deal, the one that would make it the most effective it could be by helping people at the stage in life when it matters most.  

    TAKE ACTION:

    Tweet Rep. Alexandria Ocasio-Cortez, @AOC and urge her to support including sustainable family planning in the #GreenNewDeal.

  • George Mason Professor Pushes Women to Have More Kids

    George Mason Professor Pushes Women to Have More Kids

    Tyler Cohen is urging women to have more kids as a solution to climate change, despite clear evidence that larger families are the worst way to intensify it.

    His logic?

    To put those worries out of mind, ask yourself a simple question: Is the remedy for climate change, to the extent we find one, more likely to come from North America or New Zealand?  Obviously, the wealthier and more populous America is a more likely source of technological innovation, even though it is also a more significant source of greenhouse gases. So if you think progress in this fight is possible at all, you ought to be betting on the more populous nations. By having more children, you are making your nation more populous — thus boosting its capacity to solve the problem.

    Yes, he’s arguing we should randomly have more kids, and thereby intensify all anthropogenic impacts on the planet (including ocean acidification, mass extinction, increased risk of social conflict and competition for scarcer resources), in the hopes that one child might one day develop a solution. Forget taking more sustainable steps, like encouraging smaller families where children get more individual investment to be better equipped to solve our greatest problems. Let’s just roll the dice, grow our numbers, and hope for the best.

    Tyler Cohen is actually not that stupid. But he is intellectually dishonest. Why would an economics professor who does not appear to have kids himself, make silly arguments like this? Because he and other elites are stuck in a mindset of unsustainable population growth, or the Ponzi scheme of creating wealth and growing economies by simply adding more people. Tyler does not think that randomly having kids – as opposed to improving educational systems – will solve the problem. He just wants you to have more kids because that fuels the unsustainable system, which is designed to hide and externalize its costs, upon which he and so many misguided economists have built their careers.

    Here’s a better idea: Let’s do the most effective thing possible to address all of our ecological and social crises at the same time, and promote smaller, more sustainable families instead.

  • Kudos to Vox. Now Lets Connect the Dots on Climate, Kids, and Policies.

    Kudos to Vox. Now Lets Connect the Dots on Climate, Kids, and Policies.

    Vox has recently done a great job making the connection between the ethics of having kids and things like climate change, or the quality of the resulting lives. But can we urge Vox see the crucial need to revise our family planning policies to prioritize every child getting a fair start in life?

    Here’s one way. 

    Elizabeth Warren is right to focus on the need to improve child care throughout the United States. Vox knows this. But quality child care, and the sufficient development of children to ensure real democracy in the future, depends on both supply and demand. Any policy changes should be geared toward strengthening family planning and bringing kids into better conditions, as well as improving the overall conditions. Warren should distinguish herself from Ivanka Trump, who like her father, also supports child care, but because it is a way of maintaining the growth-based Ponzi scheme of creating profits for investors by creating more people.

    Warren should embrace a policy of smaller families sharing resources to invest more in every child. That’s the best way to protect our most vulnerable entities, mitigate climate change, and ensure an ecologically and socially sustainable future.

    Will Vox help? Tweet Lauren Williams at @laurenwilliams and ask her to publicize the difference between growth-based and child-centered child care policies, and call for the latter.

  • Ask Florida Senator Lauren Book to Prevent Child Abuse With SB90

    Ask Florida Senator Lauren Book to Prevent Child Abuse With SB90

    This week marks the beginning of Florida’s 2019 Legislative Session. Legislators have until May 3 – just 60 days – to consider thousands of bills and decide on what issues are most important to Floridians. Having Kids applauds Florida Senator Lauren Book for her commitment to protecting Florida’s children from abuse and rehabilitating those who have suffered through legislative efforts and her work with Lauren’s Kids.

    Most recently, Senator Book introduced Senate Bill (“SB”) 90. This bill would establish “early childhood court programs” to “serve the needs of infants and toddlers in dependency court.” Dependency courts hear cases about children who are abused or neglected, and, in Florida, this number is staggering. In 2016 alone, nearly 42,000 children were abused or neglected in the
    State of Florida (and these are just reported cases). (We also recently asked Florida Governor Ron DeSantis to develop policies, and encourage legislation, that enables judges to issue Fair Start Orders. Read our letter to him here.)

    SB 90 would serve a tremendously important need – to have the justice system work to “restructure the way the community responds to the needs of maltreated children” through having court systems that employ a multidisciplinary approach to help heal maltreated children (both mentally and physically) and implements steps to ensure the rebuilding of the child-parent relationship.

    Having Kids commends Senator Book for introducing legislation that puts the needs of children and their well-being as a top priority. However, we encourage Senator Book to take her important bill one step farther and include Fair Start Order language as an additional part of this bill. Such legislation would allow judges, in cases of truly egregious child abuse, to issue non-coercive orders preventing abusive and neglectful parents from having additional children for limited time periods like during the period of probation. These orders, in the context of early childhood court programs, would allow parents and their healing children to focus on necessary rehabilitative steps to repair the child-parent relationship and protect future children. Shouldn’t we work to prevent abuse rather than simply react to it? Fair Start orders do just that.

    If you live in Florida, please call or send a brief message to Senator Book thanking her for her tireless work on behalf of children and asking her to consider adding Fair Start Order language to SB 90. Reach her at book.lauren@flsenate.gov
    or (850) 487-5032.

  • Mother of Eight, Rachel Campos-Duffy Denies Climate Change. Take Action for Kids.

    Mother of Eight, Rachel Campos-Duffy Denies Climate Change. Take Action for Kids.

    Does life imitate art? Fox News contributor an former Real World cast member Rachel Campos-Duffy evokes a scene from the famous movie, Idiocracy. As a mother of eight, she denies climate change and openly promotes the worst way to intensify it – more irresponsible family planning.

    Fact: The root cause of most of our environmental and social crises, like climate change, massive inequality, child abuse, terrorism and social conflict, and the decline of democracy, come from one root source: poor and unsustainable family planning.

    Is it fair that many of us have to worry about having one because people like her selfishly have eight?

    Is it fair to put the burden of dealing with the fallout of her reckless behavior on her kids, as she suggests?

    We all love our kids. We want the best for them. We have an obligation to ensure a future world that is safe and secure for them, filled with people who were born and raised with everything they need to work together for a better world. We should confront people that threaten our children and their future by promoting irresponsible and unsustainable family planning. We should not let the future for our kids be defined by people like Rachel Campos-Duffy.

    Take action:

    Tweet Rachel @RCamposDuffy, and ask her to answer these simple questions: Do all kids deserve a fair start in life and how would you ensure that? Is having eight kids sustainable? What steps are you taking to make the future world safe and secure for you own kids?

    Rachel is impacting the world we all share, and the future our kids will inherit. Help hold her accountable and urge her to engage on and debate the issues she raised.

  • Elizabeth Warren Proposes Free Child Care. But Will It Increase Births?

    Elizabeth Warren Proposes Free Child Care. But Will It Increase Births?

    Presidential Candidate, Senator Elizabeth Warren recently unveiled a plan for Universal Child Care and Early Learning. The proposal would shift resources from the mega-wealthy to fund the effort. But some have asked if it would encourage people to have more kids.

    Warren is one of the leading economic experts in our country. Surely, she is aware of the depth and effects of inequality as it relates to families and kids. Unsustainable and poor family planning is worst way to exacerbate climate change and inequality.

    The Universal Child Care and Early Learning Proposal would benefit millions of kids and help give them a fair start in life. But we can avoid the potential for free child care to incentivize poor family planning. With this in mind, we wrote to her with a suggestion for improving her Universal Child Care and Early Learning Proposal.

    Read our letter to Sen. Warren.

    We suggest an addition that ties universal child care and early learning to new parent education about the benefits of smaller families.

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    In a 2.0 version of Sen. Warren’s plan, new-parent education could be required in order to enroll for free child care. This would create a long-term planning approach for family planning in the U.S. Encouraging smaller, well planned families addresses, rather than exacerbates, the greatest threats facing the country – the degradation of our social and natural environment through things like inequality and climate change.

    We can break down the barrier between family planning and child welfare, aligning need with resource, as outlined by the Fair Start Model. Sen. Warren’s proposal would shift resources to give kids a fair start in life. Why not take it a step further by planning for our future?  

    Better child care should be meant to help kids, not simply enable parents to afford larger families. To help kids effectively, we have to aim to protect future kids, because we get the best results when we all plan well ahead.